For vs. From

When Jesus warns in Matthew 7 about wolves in sheep’s clothing, we usually picture obvious deception: someone who looks good on the outside but is secretly evil within. But if we stop there, we miss something deeper. The distinction between sheep and wolves is not only about motive, it’s about how we engage with our own survival instincts.

A sheep survives through trust—trust in the shepherd’s care, and trust in the land to provide what it needs. A wolf survives by taking life from another. Its survival depends on consumption and control, an antithetical contrast to the trust and dependence of the sheep.

This reframe helps us hear Jesus’ warning differently. A “wolf in sheep’s clothing” is not only someone pretending to be good, but also someone who presents themselves as being for others when they are actually motivated by what they can get from others.

That realization is uncomfortably close to home. In our workplaces, ministries, and leadership roles, how often do our actions slip into self-interest? Are we genuinely seeking the flourishing of others, or are we subtly angling for recognition, influence, affirmation, or results?

Jesus says we will be known by our fruit. If our posture is truly for people, the fruit will be empowerment, trust, and blessing. People will feel lighter because of our presence. But if our posture is truly about taking from people, the fruit will be depletion, control, and distrust. Whether they can fully articulate it or not, people will find themselves drained by our presence in their lives.

In today’s world, the contrast between “for” and “from” is one of the clearest ways to evaluate our leadership. Being “for” people means showing up to serve rather than to take; to empower rather than to exploit; to build trust rather than to manipulate. It is the way of the sheep—dependent on the Shepherd, bearing good fruit.

As we lead in our workplaces and communities, let’s ask ourselves: am I truly for the people God has entrusted to me, or am I really seeking something from them?

The answer to that question will show up in our fruit.

 

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